This storie is seyd nat for that wyves sholde
Folwen Grisilde as in humylitee,
For it were inportable, though they wolde,
But for that every wight, in his degree,
Sholde be constant in adversitee
As was Grisilde; therfore Petrak writeth
This storie, which with heigh stile he enditeth.
– Geoffrey Chaucer
The Canterbury Tales, The Clerk’s Tale. The Clerk cautions that other wives should not follow Griselda’s example in her humility, for that would be intolerable. He explains that the tale, which comes from Petrarch, is not about how wives should behave, but about how Christians should behave. For a Christian it means being constant in adversity, like Griselda. Well thank goodness for that!