Making the choice to cast someone in a lead role is a big one. You don’t want to squander your opportunity. – Lisa Cholodenko
This whole Oscar thing is so political. It’s about how much a film grosses, and who’s in it, and how well it has been promoted. – Lisa Cholodenko
I don’t know if my films are about women in a kind of frolicking – here’s a grab bag of women’s issues. They are about women of substance with very particular stories. – Lisa Cholodenko
I feel like if you feel good about a script, and you feel confident about your ability to direct and just capture it right, it’s all just, really, really in your favor there. – Lisa Cholodenko
There’s a lot of technology out there to help people have children in different ways, and later in life, for better or worse. – Lisa Cholodenko
If you write something that’s personal, there’s going to be elements of yourself in it. – Lisa Cholodenko
I have enjoyed writing my own stuff, and it’s been a privilege to be able to scrap some money together to be able to make films from my own scripts. – Lisa Cholodenko
I was going through some stressful stuff, and I lost feeling in my face and in my tongue. So I went to a doctor. He said he didn’t think I had MS or a brain tumor. He said, ‘I think you’re just stressed out.’ – Lisa Cholodenko
I had a nutty career. I was living in New York. Then I got to an age where my friends and sister were having children, and I started to think I needed to orient myself towards a world where it could happen. – Lisa Cholodenko
I don’t feel like my films are about gender; they are about identity – but a different slant on identity. – Lisa Cholodenko
Not only does Annette Bening have a really lovely, deep voice, but she’s also a great articulator. I think I’m more of a mumbler. – Lisa Cholodenko
I feel like I’ve been observed as an individual more than a gay person, or as a filmmaker with a certain point of view rather than a lesbian filmmaker with a gay point of view. – Lisa Cholodenko
I have a deal with HBO to develop television, and I am also developing a movie called ‘The Abstinence Teacher,’ which is based on a book by Tom Perrotta. – Lisa Cholodenko
The source of so much of my anxiety in life and the tensions in my relationship is my anxiety about my kid. It’s all very abstract and unfounded and ungrounded. – Lisa Cholodenko
I get asked why there aren’t more female directors all the time. I’m kind of reluctant to talk about it. That’s not because I think the question is irrelevant or stupid. It’s just that there are so many mitigating factors. – Lisa Cholodenko
In June 2002, I had just finished ‘Laurel Canyon’ and decided to move back to Los Angeles after nearly a decade in New York. Post-9/11 New York felt different. – Lisa Cholodenko
I think invariably when you are dealing with relationships, the films really center on that, and the plot is really born out of that. That’s the most core part of a relationship: intimacy, I think, whether it’s expressed or not. – Lisa Cholodenko
I think I’m interested in these kinds of character dramas, psychological dramas, domestic dramas, whatever you want to call them – comedy dramas. – Lisa Cholodenko
I’m in my mid-40s now, and I came out in 11th grade, so I must have been 17. So that’s quite a long time ago, and the temperature and the culture was different. – Lisa Cholodenko
I’ve done episodic television and some other things that have been written by other people. – Lisa Cholodenko
Everyone on the planet has a dark and a light. That’s a multi-dimensional character. – Lisa Cholodenko
I had a great love affair in high school and let myself have that love affair and tried to keep it to myself. – Lisa Cholodenko
