When I was young, to have a big nose, big lips or dark skin was the worst. You were the wretched. That was something I not only felt, but I participated in. – Nate Parker
Sadly, black people disassociate ourselves from the things which make us who we are, identifying them as lesser, or inferior. It’s a form of self hate. So, with reckless abandon, we strive to be like the majority. – Nate Parker
I think, at some point, we have to be followers of Christ – not followers of White Christ, or any other color Christ, for that matter. – Nate Parker
Women have been such an important part of my life. I try, every day, to be a better father to my daughters and a better husband. – Nate Parker
I never felt the need to introduce all the obstacles in my past when I say, ‘Hello, my name is Nate.’ But at the same time, I’ve never hidden from it. – Nate Parker
I was very insecure approaching the idea of directing a feature film. I told myself I would not move until I felt I was moving in power rather than moving in desperation to make a movie. – Nate Parker
Identify your niche and dominate it. And when I say dominate, I just mean work harder than anyone else could possibly work at it. – Nate Parker
I just feel like if I really believe what Dr. King said, ‘Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere,’ then I should be compelled to use my God-given platform to effect change. – Nate Parker
We have a tendency to sugar coat the Civil Rights movement by showing arm in arm and everyone singing ‘Kumbaya’. We don’t really always show the resistance from the government, the resistance from the status quo, from the majority to silence the movement. – Nate Parker
The crazy thing is a lot of people – a lot of men, if I’m just speaking for myself – don’t really start thinking about the effect of hyper-masculinity and false definitions of what it means to be a man until you get married or until you have kids. Because then, all of sudden, you have something to protect. – Nate Parker
Let me be the first to say I can’t remember ever having a conversation about the definition of consent when I was a kid. I knew that ‘no’ meant ‘no,’ but that’s it. – Nate Parker
I coach a high school wrestling team and a middle school team. I consider myself a coach and an activist, so I’m really involved in the community. – Nate Parker
So if I’m 36, and I have my 19-year-old self, I’m pulling him to the side and saying, ‘Listen bruh, throwing on your Timbs and your fitted hat and strolling campus trying to get a girl to say yes, or going to the club hoping you bring a girl home, that’s not the way to go about healthy relationships. You need to step back.’ – Nate Parker
All I can do is seek the information that’ll make me stronger, that’ll help me overcome my toxic masculinity, my male privilege, because that’s something you never think about. You don’t think about other people. – Nate Parker
I prefer to make movies which not only have a message for ‘then’ but a message for ‘now.’ – Nate Parker
I do believe, as a person of color, the disparities are great. A lot of the roles that were sent to me were ‘Gangbanger No. 1.’ And when a role did come up that I felt carried and represented my community in the best ways, I wasn’t the only one that knew it existed. So I’d have to compete. – Nate Parker
You don’t choose who you sit next to in a theater. You sit in a theater, and there’s an energy that happens. – Nate Parker
We all serve a purpose. My purpose isn’t to be rejected. My purpose isn’t to think small or to be introverted. This door closed is literally pushing me to the next door. – Nate Parker
Any psychologist will tell you that healing comes from honest confrontation with our injury or with our past. Whatever that thing is that has hurt us or traumatized us, until we face it head on, we will have issues moving forward in a healthy way. – Nate Parker
The black community is my community – the LGBT community, too, and the female community. That is my community. That’s me; it’s who I am. – Nate Parker
So often, when we don’t have people that can be representative or symbolic of leadership and of faith, of purpose, in that absence we become bitter and resentful. – Nate Parker
