Love wol nat been constreyned by maistrye.
Whan maistrie comth, the God of Love anon
Beteth his wynges, and farewel, he is gon!
Modern English:
Love will not be constrained by mastery;
When mastery ‘comes, the god of love anon
Beats his fair wings, and farewell! He is gone!
– Geoffrey Chaucer
The Canterbury Tales, The Franklin’s Tale. The Franklin emphasises that when one person tries to dominate in a marriage, the god of love beats his wings and he flies out the door. Equality is essential for a marriage to work – like the marriage of Dorigen and Arveragus, which is based on equality with neither having mastery over the other.