"I dare say you will find him very agreeable."
"To find a man agreeable whom one is determined to hate! – Do not wish me such an evil."
– Jane Austen
Pride and Prejudice, Chapter 18. When Elizabeth is asked to dance by Mr. Darcy at Netherfield, Charlotte Lucas suggests that she might even enjoy it. But Elizabeth is having none of it – having already prejudged the man, he is someone she is "determined to hate."